When I call him out on his bad behavior he gets angry and will say “how dare you say that. Apologize right now!”

He’s done this since we started living together.

I used to cry and apologize.

I would grovel and try to explain what I meant.

I was afraid he’d leave.

Now I only hope he will.

This morning he was late to an appointment and of course blamed everyone but himself. Even though he was the one who sat on his phone until 10 minutes before he had to leave.

He was rushing around yelling at us “I HAVE TO GO! I’M LATE!” over and over he yelled this for 15 minutes straight

Several times I said “then go, no one is stopping you.”

On the last time as he was acted annoyed by life and blaming the world for his time blindness I just said “oh my god, just shut up, and go”

“How dare you! You shut up and apologize!”

“No, I’m good. Say goodbye to your boys.”

He said goodbye to the kids and left in a huff. And I did not care. When he got back he was perfectly pleasant.

I still hate him.