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From Silence to Strength


  • December 21, 2025

    Episode 7- The Day it Stopped Feeling Temporary

    Episode 7- The Day it Stopped Feeling Temporary

    Nothing dramatic happened that day. No shouting.No slammed doors.No moment you’d circle in red and call the beginning of the end. That’s what made it harder to ignore. Sydney was standing at the counter packing lunches — the same motions, the same rhythm — when she realized she was moving through her life without expecting…

  • December 20, 2025

    Love, Without the Game

    Love, Without the Game

    Last night, my husband was on a solo trip… My nervous system was able to relax, even the boys were able to relax. I sat up thinking about my non-negotiables for myself. Coincidentally, yesterday, I picked up a sticker out of my prize box for my students. I had just gotten some new ones and…

  • December 17, 2025

    How Light Escapes

    How Light Escapes

    It was evening, standing over the stove, like she did day after day. She felt it first as a crack— a hairline fracture, then something spreading beneath the surface. Her life had grown too small, her light too big. At first she thought it was a broken heart. Then she called it grief— mourning a…

  • December 16, 2025

    Without Apology

    Without Apology

    I deserve the world. I am not too much— not too loud, not too demanding, not too opinionated. I think with my heart. I live in color. I want to be free. I want to use my voice. I exist— without apology, without shrinking, without asking permission. I am not too much.

  • December 16, 2025

    Watching a Narcissist Spiral (author’s post)

    I talked to my first attorney today. It was not the relief I thought I’d feel. In fact, afterward, I started feeling physically ill. Like sore throat, body aches, the whole nine. I was fine before the phone call, but my entire body just gave in afterward. I have moments where I ask myself if…

  • December 14, 2025

    Episode 6- The Safest She’s Felt

    She didn’t remember the night in a straight line. It came back to her in pieces — sensations more than scenes. The low hum of music. The way the light in his apartment felt warm instead of bright. The quiet confidence in how Ryan moved around the space, like he wasn’t trying to impress her…

  • December 12, 2025

    You thought you could Dim me- a poem

    First of all, I have never written poetry. Never. Last night as I was drifting off to sleep o started saying these lines and I knew I’d have to sit up and write them down before full falling asleep otherwise they’d be gone forever. this morning I woke and finished the last stanza. You Thought…

  • December 10, 2025

    Tonight almost broke me (author’s post)

    Tonight I almost said flat out I want a divorce. It wasn’t some earth shattering fight. I was just blamed, gaslit, belittled and talked down to all in one swoop. I gray-rocked and I hid my emotions but I almost fell apart. I almost burst into tears because I cannot take it anymore. I cannot…

  • December 10, 2025

    Episode 5 — The Weight of a Life That Doesn’t Fit Anymore

    Episode 5 — The Weight of a Life That Doesn’t Fit Anymore

    Sydney woke before the sun again.Not rested. Just awake in the way a body wakes when it’s been carrying too much for too long. Her husband’s back was turned toward her, rising and falling in a rhythm untouched by anything she was feeling. Once, that sight made her feel safe.Now it made her feel… replaceable.…

  • December 8, 2025

    The Crazy Parts of Healing

    I have been gray-rocking the shit out of my future ex-husband. For those of you who are not well-versed in the narcissistic world (1. I’m fucking envious), that means you give them nothing every time they try to pick a fight or manipulate you or hurt you in some way. You basically provide the dullest,…

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